Those individuals — my people as I like to call them — faithfully pursue one adventure after the other, holding their loved ones close all the while. But sometimes, all you’re left with are the photos. I won’t let you go without them. I promise they’ll be real, warm and honestly yours.
A quick look at my take as a Houston professional photographer
When they say photos are priceless, they mean it. Some of the first senior photos I took are now the last pictures I have of my sister. She was just months away from graduating high school and I helped her pick out some outfits, do her hair and makeup, and we went off to a local state park. This day I live over and over again in my head taking photos of her laughing and smiling, looking so angelic, and naturally beautiful and happy. I wish I could just go back in time and spend this day with her all over again. Because in just a few days after this picture-perfect day, my sister Ashley would get into a car wreck and pass away on impact. My heart was broken, grief was settling in all too well. But little did I know those photos of her would become so important.
Huge prints were framed at the funeral and people were in love with how they turned out. I knew Ashley loved them and she would have told everyone her big sister took them. Before I knew it, my weekends at home that were overtaken with sadness and tragedy started to fill with photoshoots of my sister’s senior friends — those who loved her and kept her memory alive. I picked up the pieces of my life and continued through college even though all passion for my degree (in elementary education) had completely left my body. I took an advanced digital photography class while in college, finished my degree and began a new journey to becoming a Houston professional photographer.
The photos we have of my sister bring me to tears, but they make her memory a reality. I can't imagine not having such recent photos of her literally days before she passed. While I would never wish this for anyone, I will never not be aware of how meaningful photos can be as we go through life. I want to give people photos that will be equally meaningful — to carry memories and emotions that can never be replaced.
A journey that started with sisters and grief…
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